This column, written by Mark Hinderks, of Stinson LLP, focuses on ethics questions. The discussion here is based on the ABA Model Rules of Professional Conduct, but the Model Rules are often adopted in different and amended versions, and interpreted in different ways in various places. Always check the rules and authorities applicable in your relevant jurisdiction—the result may be completely different.

Question: I am a lawyer who represents companies in corporate transactions. For the last month or so, I have been seeing a law school classmate, initially just as friends to catch up on things, but the last couple of times we got together, there was a spark that made this feel more like a dating-type arrangement. We have kept things slow, however, and have not engaged in a fully intimate relationship yet, although I’m hoping that is where it’s headed. I think my former classmate feels the same way. However, last night this individual called to announce that they have been offered a dream job working on their specialty within the law department of my biggest client.