For the past 10 years, I have been captivated by award-winning television series The Amazing Race. I am a mother of three, who also works as a partner in a bustling law firm in San Jose, Calif. Of course, I am drawn to a show that involves teams vying against each other in a race around the world, competing in various challenges to be the last team standing. It’s the race; it’s the competition; it’s the sense of victory. I am the quintessential contestant because I am running a race every day. By self-definition, I am a lawyer on the move.

When Sheryl Sandberg released her new book last month, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead, my interest was piqued. What advice could I take from this woman leader from my generation who detests the label of "bossy" for young girls and examines the myth of "doing it all"?