As the 60-day period for public comment to U.S. Secretary of Education Betsy DeVos‘ proposed Title IX guidelines comes to a close, comments released this week by Pennsylvania Gov. Tom Wolf and several prominent Philadelphia attorneys highlight how divisive—and deeply personal—the issue of schools’ handling of sexual misconduct allegations has become.

In a letter to DeVos dated Jan. 29, Wolf said he was writing to express his “deep concern” about the proposals “[a]s governor of Pennsylvania—and as a parent and grandparent.”